{"id":3494,"date":"2012-02-22T08:49:38","date_gmt":"2012-02-22T14:49:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/marccardaronella.com\/?p=3494"},"modified":"2013-02-11T21:42:27","modified_gmt":"2013-02-12T03:42:27","slug":"dont-waste-your-lent-giving-up-chocolate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marccardaronella.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/22\/dont-waste-your-lent-giving-up-chocolate\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Waste Your Lent Giving Up Chocolate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/marccardaronella.com\/2012\/02\/22\/dont-waste-your-lent-giving-up-chocolate\/lent-chocolate\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-3501\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-3501\" title=\"lent-chocolate\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/marccardaronella.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/lent-chocolate.jpg\" width=\"260\" height=\"195\" \/><\/a>If you&#8217;re reading this post, it&#8217;s probably close to Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re Catholic, without a doubt you&#8217;ll be asked, &#8220;What are you giving up?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And, 99% of the time the answer will come back, &#8220;Chocolate!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Now don&#8217;t get me wrong, I like a good fast as much as the next guy (unless that guy is St. Francis).<\/p>\n<p>But I\u00a0believe there&#8217;s more productive things to do during Lent than giving up chocolate&#8211;and I&#8217;m going to tell you why!<br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>Lent&#8230;it&#8217;s like training camp<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Lent is like spiritual training camp.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Every summer, football teams go to training camp. It&#8217;s an intense time when they work out extra hard to get in shape for\u00a0the regular season. They do conditioning, drill the fundamentals, work on key skills, and\u00a0scrimmage.<\/p>\n<p>They do all these things during the season too, but training camp is intensive training. It gets them really ready for the big games.<\/p>\n<p>During Lent, we&#8217;re in <a title=\"What You Learn About Yourself in the Desert\" href=\"http:\/\/marccardaronella.com\/2011\/03\/07\/what-you-learn-about-yourself-in-the-desert\/\" target=\"_blank\">intensive training<\/a> for the big day&#8211;Easter! That&#8217;s\u00a0the highest celebration of the whole year. We have to be ready.<\/p>\n<h2>What do you work on during Lent?<\/h2>\n<p>During Lent, we work to purify ourselves&#8211;get rid of sin and\/or sinful tendencies.<\/p>\n<p>The Lenten spiritual disciplines (giving stuff up) are like the conditioning drills in training camp. Instead of strengthening the body for resisting tackles, they strengthen the will for resisting our sinful tendencies.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The root of all sin is disordered self-love<\/strong>. It&#8217;s disordered because we love ourselves and what we want <strong>more<\/strong> than we love God and what he wants for us.\u00a0<strong>Ordered self-love<\/strong> makes God, and his ways, the priority.<\/p>\n<p>Ironically, ordered self-love sometimes means you don&#8217;t get what your &#8220;self&#8221; loves. That&#8217;s because we often make bad choices.<\/p>\n<p>The temptation not to follow God can be strong and, let&#8217;s face it, we&#8217;re weak. Our disordered selves love to give in to sin. It feels really good at the time, but it&#8217;s really bad for you.<\/p>\n<h2>It can&#8217;t be allowed to live!<\/h2>\n<p>Disordered self-love can&#8217;t merely be tolerated. It can&#8217;t be allowed to live! It must be killed! Mortified!<\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"How Lenten Penance Can Springboard Your Spiritual Growth\" href=\"http:\/\/marccardaronella.com\/2011\/03\/10\/how-lenten-penance-can-springboard-your-spiritual-growth\/\" target=\"_blank\">Mortifications<\/a> are penances that involve self-denial.<\/strong>\u00a0In Latin,\u00a0<em>mortis<\/em>\u00a0means death. Mortification \u201cputs to death\u201d sinful tendencies and desires. In\u00a0the spiritual life you&#8217;re like James Bond&#8211;licensed to kill!<\/p>\n<p>So, why not give up chocolate for Lent? Giving up chocolate is not bad. It&#8217;s denying yourself something that your &#8220;self&#8221; loves. That indirectly strengthens the will to fight your sinful tendencies.<\/p>\n<p>But there&#8217;s a more direct way. Figure out your <a title=\"Why We Need Lent | What You Don\u2019t Know About Sin Can Hurt You\" href=\"http:\/\/marccardaronella.com\/2011\/03\/17\/why-we-need-lent-what-you-dont-know-about-sin-can-hurt-you\/\" target=\"_blank\">biggest fault<\/a> and attack that directly.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do you get angry a lot?\u00a0Give up arguing back. Stay silent when someone attacks you.<\/li>\n<li>Are you envious and resentful of coworkers? Compliment them when they do a good job on something.<\/li>\n<li>Do you buy too many clothes? Give up clothes shopping.<\/li>\n<li>Have a problem with internet porn? Try fasting completely from those sites.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Lenten spirituality takeaway<\/h2>\n<p>Go ahead and give up chocolate if you want to, but that&#8217;s not really training camp. That&#8217;s not going all &#8220;007&#8221; on your sin!<\/p>\n<p>Lent is the time to attack and kill. 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